27 12 / 2011
Confidence is key!
Feeling lonely? Dozens of guys have difficulty picking up and conversing with the opposite sex. Unfortunately for the majority of us (myself included) we weren’t gifted with the charm powers to be able to get girls to date me without much effort. I was finally fed up with my situation, so I ventured out on a journey that started roughly a decade ago and I discovered just what worked with the ladies, and most significantly, what didn’t. Now I’m here, and I’m going to deliver to you my 3 top hints and tricks you can use RIGHT NOW to start picking up women and will get you right on your way to learning how to get girls! Don’t be Worried about Getting Rejected - Most guys have a paralyzing fear of rejection. It happens like this: A guy sees a nice-looking girl, and sometimes, he may cheer himself into initiating contact with her. Between this moment and the next, the man begins doubting himself. “She’s busy”, “She’s probably taken”, or “She’s way out of my league” when in reality this is just people validating their own fear of being rejected. Sometimes when people are paying me thousands of dollars to give them personal one-on-one coaching, I will tell them to go out and get rejected on purpose! Most women, even if they do end up telling you no, will do it by saying “Sorry, I already have a boyfriend” or something just as mild, so don’t be afraid of being laughed at. Go to a town a couple miles away to where nobody knows you and you know nobody. That way, you can ask girls out without the feeling of rejection or worry because at the end of the day, you’ll never see these people again. Michael Jordan once said, you miss every one of your shots you don’t take any. If you are having a problem with getting girls, don’t use this as an excuse. Be Confident - When asked, women always say the most desirable and sexy trait that a man can have is to be confident. Act like you direct the world, like you are the most wanted man on the face of earth and you can get practically whatever you want, whenever you want. If you approach a woman seem hesitant or act like you are nervous, you will get rejected almost 100% of the time.Confidence! If you want to discover how to get girls, then this is the most important thing you need to take to heart! Be A Challenge - Chicks love challenges. This is the reason women date “jerks”. This isn’t because jerks are more attractive than nice guys, it’s just that they more of a challenge. You don’t need to be a jerk to get girls to fall for you if you know how to be a challenge. Jokingly point out something, “those are nice shoes, my 5 year old niece has a pair” and smile. Every woman, everywhere, gets compliments thrown at her nonstop by guys who want to hook up with her. Make it different; challenge the norm. You can even stir up a petty argument if you really want to get her attracted do you.
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